Friday, August 24, 2007

Fortune Cookie Says....Customers and Friends For Life

One of my favorite sayings when I give a talk, do a corporate training or coach a client goes something like this.....

"People seldom remember what you said. People rarely remember what you did. But people will always remember how you made them feel."

I guess it was about a year ago that this little Chinese food restaurant called Hunan Ranch opened up near our house. My entire family became instant fans because the food was so good. We easily went there for lunch or dinner a few times a month. That was...until we discovered FREE DELIVERY. I am quite positive we will have to take a second mortgage out on the house to pay for all these Chinese food cravings that now seem to strike without warning and come with complete disregard for our household eating budget.

To be perfectly honest we started ordering more regularly for another reason than it was easy, we were lazy and the delivery was free. No...we ordered for the delivery guy. Perhaps the greatest delivery guy ever!

The first time the delivery guy showed up to our house with our order he struck a cord with my youngest son Josh. He showered him with atttention as my wife paid for our order. His playful way of connecting with Josh who is four mind you, was hard to ignore. He affectionately called Josh his "little buddy" and Josh swelled with pride at the sound his new nickname.

Every delivery since has only gotten better. Josh and the delivery guy have become very good friends! The delivery guy, whom I am ashamed to admit we don't know his name (yet), always inquires about where "his buddy Josh is" and it has become sort of a game for Josh to hide out and jump out to give "his" buddy a big strapping hug. The delivery guy eats it up and really seems to enjoy it too.

I am convinced we get our orders faster than anyone else and I won't swear to it but I think our portions some how get super sized! Plus he always seems to have a few extra fortune cookies for both of my boys that just so happen to come with each hug. My oldest son Zachary even has gotten into the act of hugging and high fiving the guy when he comes with our delivery. It's quite a sight to see them blast down the stars when they hear the doorbell and see who gets to give a hug first.

Each delivery is fun to watch and by and large would be enough to keep us loyal customers forever. But it was something that happened the other day that just blew me away and made me want to share this with you.

Kathy and Zach were about to go pick up Josh from daycare when there was knock on the door. Kathy answered the door and there stood our favorite delivery driver complete with a big old smile on his face. He said he hoped he wasn't disturbing her but that he just wants to stop and say hello to his favorite customers. He asked Zachary where his "other buddy" was and Zach explained Josh was still at school. Zach said he seemed a little bit sad to have missed Josh because out from behind his back came a handful of fortune cookies that he had hoped to give to them both.

He had just stopped by to give them to Josh and Zach.

No order had been placed.

No reason to make a stop other than an intentional act of kindness that was guaranteed to make two little boy's day!

An act that has since become legendary in the old Harper household.

Talk about customer service! We were already guaranteed customers but now Hunan Ranch has evangelistic customers that will hopefully bring many, many more customers to this great little restaurant. Though I must admit I suspect our days of ever eating there are over....the kids won't hear of it. They only want delivery!

Customer service over an above the call of duty and an act that I bet leaves even Confucius speechless.

So if you are running a business, working with customers or simply have a chance to impact someone's day, what kind of Fortune Cookie act might you conjure up?

Psst....here's a secret....your customers will swell with adoring pride, just like Zach and Josh do, simply because you did something unique and memorable.

Talk about a Ripple.

Ripple On!!!


Steve

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Answer The Call

We all know someone right now in our personal or professional lives who may be struggling. Whether it be with a relationship, difficulties with their kids, career issues, or whatever. No matter what the size of the struggle guaranteed it looks and feels much bigger to the person who is right now going through it. And without a doubt, whatever their struggle might be they are most certainly feeling overwhelmed, out of control and alone.

I have been there. I suspect you have been there too.

People who are struggling need to know that they have your support, that someone out there cares. Simply having someone who takes the time to sit down and listen, brainstorm or just plain give advice can be a huge relief to someone.

Reach out and help someone who needs helping.

You will be absolutely glad you did. Trust me!

Answer the call. Or better yet....make one.

Ripple On!!!

Steve

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Happy Birthday Mom

Mom,

I really don't know what to say to you and yet I have so much I want to say to you but the words wouldn't make sense; at least not in this format. The disease you have has robbed you of your mind, your body and the person I knew as "Mom." But every once in a while, those big brown eyes of yours sparkle again and that smile returns if only for just a moment and then it is gone as quickly as it appeared. It's those moments that I know Dad lives for as he cares for you; feeds and bathes you...unconditionally loves you.

It's those moments that I cherish when I am home. I know, I don't come home nearly often enough and for that all I can say is I am sorry. But rest assured there is not a day that goes by that I don't miss you. Miss you as you are today and miss you as you were.

Well August 21st is your birthday. Though you won't celebrate another year older and have another year ahead to look forward to, at least not in the way one should on their birthday, we still celebrate this day for you.

Oh Alzheimer's is such a cruel, cruel disease. We are glad you are still here and fighting the fight that you can. We miss that giggle and the smiles and Kathy misses those "special treat" trips you two used to make when we came home. And yes we miss even that high pitched scream that could wake the dead...you know the one you used to yell at Dad and me when we did something to anger you. Oh how I wish I could hear you yell at him...or me...one more time. Never thought it would be possible to miss that scream but somehow those memories now make me smile. Funny how that works isn't it?

I wish you a Happy Birthday on this day that is yours. August 21st will always be yours. I am sorry we can't be there to celebrate with you; Austin seems so far away doesn't it?

I know Dad will gussy you up and take you our for a nice dinner and adorn the kind affection he always has because he is a great man who loves you very much. I just hope that God will allow you to come back into focus for a few fleeting moments, smile that smile and enjoy this day as only you can.

I love you Mom. Happy Birthday!!!

Steve