Thursday, June 11, 2009

What In The World Is An 8 Minute Ripple?

Several years a few buddies and I were sitting around over beer and chewing the fat. One of my friends asked me what I planned to do to promote my book. Other than speaking occasionally and hoping that somehow the book sale Gods would shine down on me I hadn't really give it much thought. The more we chatted the more I realized that despite these guys being my friends and readers of the book, most of them were struggling with the practical application of how to Ripple.

As I am prone to do I immediately grabbed a pen and a napkin and started mapping out the various impactful ways Rippling could be applied to their social and business connection efforts. The more I drew the more the conversation and beer flowed. As the night wore on what I realized was the book was useful for those who could read it and immediately understand the application of it...but for some, including my now inebriated friends, it was clear a physical example of the power of social connection might be needed.

The idea of Rippling as an event was born.

To be clear my initial goal was to illustrate to people that connections come in all shapes and sizes and often through people we would least expect. I desperately wanted the 8 Minute Ripple to be viewed as a distinct departure from the "traditional 'so what do you do' networking" events which had been the bain of my existence up to that point. I wanted to give people a real life example of the power of social connection and how much more successful it is when you don't allow prejudgement or some pressing business agenda to cloud the view of people you encounter.

The event was simple...no business cards. No quippy 30 second spiels about what you do. No sales pitches. No posturing. No telling people where you live, what car you drive, where you went to school, what degrees you hold, etc. Nothing that denotes anything of "status."

Why? Simple! When we don't bring those things up the pressure is totally off. Our prejudgment tendencies stay in the barn. Our competitive dander stays down and most people open up their eyes and ears and really get to experience others for who they are...not what they are. The Ripple truly humanizes the process of connecting.

It's been several years now since that first event. Clearly we've made some changes along the way to enhance the experience for our participants but the approach and the goal still remains: demonstrate there is a better way to build your personal and professional network and it can be done in a fun and pressure free environment with individuals you absolutely want to meet and get to know. It worked for my beer buddies and I suspect if will work for you and yours as well!

Here's hoping if you you might come check out a future Ripple!

We have an event occurring on June 25th 6:30-8:30 in Austin. Come out and see what all the fuss is about. More details are available on my website at www.ripplecentral.com And if you know anyone in career transition, definitely encourage them to come to this Ripple as the approach to connecting can and will teach them how to open doors to that next job opportunity!

Ripple On!!!

Sunday, June 07, 2009

Will You?

Imagine the person who crossed your path today, tomorrow or perhaps next week holds the very key to your destiny.

You would not miss the chance to meet that person...would you?

You would not want to outright ignore them...would you?

You would not look away when they smiled at you....would you?

You would not return the kindness of their good morning...would you?

You would most certainly not make the time to spend a few minutes getting to know them...would you?

Well, would you?

Here's the thing folks...those people exist for both you and me. They are still out there...somewhere! They are just waiting for the right time and the right place to make their appearance and literally cross our path. They will certainly be looking for us...and secretly hoping we will be looking for them as well.

The question isn't would you? Nothe better question is...will you?

Will you...take the time to treat each and every person that crosses your path with the care, compassion and openness that destiny looks for?

Will you...actively seek to explore why those who have crossed your path are there?

Will you..take the time, make the effort and keep a watchful eye for anyone and everyone who enters your life?

Will you...actively look for and seek out opportunities to engage and connect with everyone regardless of who they are or what they can or can not do for you?

I bet you will and when you do that's when the keys of destiny start rattling in the pockets of those we most need to meet.

Ripple On!!!