Thursday, June 29, 2006

Starbucks Connection

I have often talked about my growing reputation as the Starbucks Stalker. I love meeting new people and one of the greatest places to do that is Starbucks. Think about it...where else can you meet so many diverse, yet incredibly interesting people from all walks of life? Aside from standing in line at the Post Office, which I equate to a slow painful death, Starbucks is a smorgasboard of new opportunities without the banality of most common gathering alternatives.

It now appears I might be rubbing off on my dad.

It was last week and my dad excitedly called my phone to recount an experience he had had in that morning at his local Starbucks. It seems he was enjoying a nice leisurely morning and a Venti Carmel Macchiato when a conversation at the next table caught his ear.

I have often said that a stranger is a friend you haven't met yet. I learned much of this way of thinking from dad growing up and watching him engage people at restaurants, bookstores and our favorite fishing haunts. He is really a master engager!

At any rate, it seems the conversation that he was overhearing, happened to be about the promotion of speakers on the radio. One man was speaking to another about how he should focus on radio for getting exposure for his new book. When my dad heard the words speaking, promotion and book, his heart began to race.

Dad quickly jumped up from his table and ran to his car. When he came back, he politely interrupted their conversation and introduced himself. He relayed that he wasn't eavesdropping but couldn't help but overhear their conversation and just had to introduce his son and give them my new information flyer. My dad has become my super promoter in Albuquerque with a tenacity that would make Arie Gold from HBO's Entourage seem like a fuzzy kitten.

As luck would have it, the man who had been doing most of the talking was a locally famous talk show host named Larry Ahrens. The other gentlemen sitting at the table just happend to be the 12th man to walk on the moon, Harrison Jack Schmidt. A personal hero of mine since the first grade!!!

As Dad recalled the story in fantastic detail I couldn't help but fill with pride. My Dad was causing a ripple effect of enormous proportions.

Both gentlemen were gracious in accepting my information and I have no idea if anything will come of this random connection. However, my dad proved my long held belief that you can meet just about anyone at your local Starbucks if you are willing to put yourself out there and have the courage to engage. Whether it's a famous radio celebrity or the man on the moon, you just don't know and that's part of the mystery and fun of taking the chance.

Thanks Dad for being a great Starbucks Stalker!

Monday, June 26, 2006

HAVE FUN!


So a good friend of mine, Asha Prasad (click here for her BLOG), let me borrow a book she had recently read on her trip to North Carolina. The book was Screw It Let's Do It: Lessons In Life by Richard Branson. It is a fascinating book by this consummate entrepreneur.

One of the primary messages that stuck with me the most was the simple concept of having fun! Richard's advice is to never do anything that isn't fun. He has always focused on projects or business opportunities based on whether they will be fun or not. Sometimes the challenge is to find the fun in particular opportunities but it is essential to enjoy what you are doing otherwise why do it?

Another great piece of advice was when you start something that was fun but it is no longer, move on!

How many of us are getting up today to do something that we don't honestly enjoy?

Perhaps we never enjoyed it. So why do we do it? We have to pay the bills right?

Each day we all crawl closer to our end. Sorry....but it's true. Why waste the time doing a job or living a life you don't enjoy? So one day you can look back and say, "well I did what I had to do?"

Pardon my French but that's Le' Crapola! Or for my redneck buddies that's a big bowl of wrong!

Life offers us only the moments we are in right here and now. Tomorrow, next week or hell next year is not guaranteed. We all must live for the moment and enjoy every aspect of our lives otherwise we do ourselves and our purpose a disservice.

Are you having fun? If not, what changes must you make in your life, career, friendships, etc. in order to begin having fun?

Sounds simple and I know some of my esoteric friends will criticize me for the impracticality of this advice but I offer this bit of advice..... SCREW IT.....JUST DO IT!

Thanks Mr. Branson for giving me a much needed reminder!

Ripple On My Friends!

Steve Harper
www.therippleeffectbook.com